Marriage Services & Counseling

At Masjidu Ahlis Sunnah, we are honored to provide marriage services rooted in Islamic tradition and community support. Our services include nikah ceremonies, waleemah celebrations, and marriage counseling—helping couples begin their journey together with blessing, guidance, and joy.

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Marriage (Nikah & Waleemah) at Masjid Ahlis Sunnah

Masjid Ahlis Sunnah offers comprehensive matrimonial services to assist Muslims in finding future spouses, helping to connect individuals seeking marriage in a respectful and supportive environment. As part of the process, couples who decide to pursue marriage are guided to enter into a marriage contract, which is considered a sacred covenant in Islam. This contract solemnizes the spiritual and physical connection between a man and a woman, outlining their rights and responsibilities within the marriage.

In addition to matchmaking, we provide marriage certificates for couples who marry through our services, ensuring that the union is recognized and valid in accordance with Islamic law. Our goal is to help foster strong, faith-based relationships while offering the necessary support throughout the marriage process.

Looking for a Spouse

If you are looking for a husband or a wife, you must fill out a ‘Looking for a Spouse’ form below. We will assist you in finding an appropriate mate, in shaa Allaah.

Contact us at least bi-weekly regarding the process of your application. Otherwise, you will be contacted at least twice a month with updates, insha’Allah

Have an Intended Spouse

Please take a pamphlet on marriage and schedule a meeting with the Imam. In this meeting, he will review the basics of marriage with you and your intended spouse and confirm that everything is for a valid Islamic marriage.

Afterward, you will complete the Marriage Certificate Application form below and set the date for your marriage ceremony.

Islamic Reminder

وَمِنْ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦٓ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَٰجًۭا لِّتَسْكُنُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةًۭ وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ لَـَٔايَـٰتٍۢ لِّقَوْمٍۢ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ (٢١)

And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He has placed between you compassion and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect. – Ar-Rum: 21

Nikah (Ceremony)

The Nikah ceremony, which formalizes the marriage in Islam, is built upon four major components:

1. Bride and Groom: The consent of both the groom and the bride is essential for a valid and successful Nikah. Both parties must willingly agree to the union.

2. Wali (Guardian): The presence of a wali, or male guardian, is a requirement for a marriage to be valid. A woman cannot marry without the approval and involvement of her wali. The wali is typically a close male relative, such as the bride’s father, brother, grandfather, or paternal uncle. Without a wali, the marriage is considered invalid.

3. Mahr (Dowry): Mahr is a mandatory gift from the groom to the bride, which she is free to use or keep as she wishes. It is her right, and no one including her parents or family can claim any part of the Mahr. The amount and type of Mahr are decided by the bride, ensuring it is her right.

4. Witnesses: To ensure the marriage is conducted openly and with mutual consent, two male witnesses must be present at the time of the Nikah. These witnesses should be adults who have reached the age of maturity. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) stated, “There is no marriage except with witnesses.” It is also important to publicly announce the marriage after the ceremony to confirm the union within the community.

These key components are essential in ensuring that the Nikah is valid and in accordance with Islamic principles.

Important Notice:

The Main Office on the 1st Floor of the Islamic Center of America is your primary point of contact. Our staff will be happy to assist you with your request or provide further information. Please visit the office to fill out the necessary form.

Thank you for your cooperation!

Waleemah (Celebration)

The Walimah celebration is a Sunnah (tradition) of our beloved Messenger of Allah (Peace Be Upon Him) and holds great significance in Islam. It serves as an expression of gratitude, joy, and a public announcement of the marriage. The Walimah is encouraged to be a means of sharing happiness and inviting others to celebrate the union.

When a Walima is held, invitations should be extended to family members, relatives, friends, colleagues, scholars, pious individuals, and others in the community. It is important not to limit invitations to only the wealthy or elite. Islam encourages inclusivity, and all should be welcomed to partake in the celebration.

In Islam, it is emphasized that accepting an invitation to a Walima is important, and refusing it without a valid reason is considered sinful. When one accepts the invitation and attends the event, they have fulfilled their duty, regardless of whether they eat. However, it is preferable to partake in the meal, especially if one is not fasting. The act of attending and sharing in the joy of the occasion is highly valued in Islam.

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Marriage Counseling at Masjid Ahlis Sunnah

At Masjid Ahlis Sunnah, we understand that marriage is one of the most significant and rewarding relationships in life. It is a sacred bond based on love, trust, and mutual respect, as outlined in Islam. However, like any relationship, it requires effort, communication, and understanding to thrive. Our Marriage Counseling Services are designed to help couples strengthen their relationships, navigate challenges, and grow together in harmony, in accordance with the teachings of Islam.

We are committed to providing a safe, confidential, and supportive environment where couples can seek guidance, resolve issues, and enhance their emotional connection. Our goal is to ensure that every marriage is built on a foundation of understanding, respect, and a shared commitment to the values and principles of Islam.

What We Offer:

  • • One-on-One Counseling Sessions:
    • We provide individual counseling for each partner to ensure both voices are heard and respected. Each session is designed to address the specific concerns and needs of the couple, providing tools and strategies for improvement.
  • • Couple Counseling:
    • In couple counseling sessions, both partners will work together with our qualified counselor to identify areas of concern and discuss ways to improve the relationship. We create a safe, non-judgmental space for couples to openly express their feelings and work toward solutions.
  • • Pre-Marital Counseling:
    • Marriage is a lifetime commitment, and setting realistic expectations from the beginning is key. Our pre-marital counseling provides couples with the opportunity to discuss important topics such as roles, expectations, financial management, and how to maintain a strong emotional and spiritual connection. This helps prevent future misunderstandings and strengthens the foundation of the marriage.
  • • Conflict Resolution and Mediation:
    • Sometimes, couples need a neutral third party to help resolve conflicts. Our counselors act as mediators to ensure that both partners are heard and that resolutions are fair and mutually beneficial. This service is especially helpful in cases where ongoing disputes are affecting the relationship.
  • • Family Counseling:
    • Marriage often involves blending families, which can bring about additional challenges. Our family counseling services address issues related to parenting, in-laws, and managing family dynamics, ensuring that couples can maintain a healthy relationship while balancing family life.
  • • Islamic Guidance and Support:
    • All counseling sessions are rooted in Islamic principles, ensuring that advice is aligned with the teachings of The Qur’an and The Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ). We focus on building marriages that are not only healthy but also spiritually fulfilling, encouraging couples to strengthen their relationship with Allah as they nurture their bond with each other.

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How to Access Marriage Counseling at Masjid Ahlis Sunnah

At Masjid Ahlis Sunnah, we strive to make marriage counseling accessible to everyone. Our services are open to both masjid members and the wider community. To begin the counseling process, simply follow these steps:

  1. Contact Us:
    Reach out to our office to schedule a session or to ask any questions about our services.
    • Phone: (973) 672-6690
    • Visit Us: 1st Floor Main Office (215 North Oraton Pkwy, East Orange, NJ 07017)
  2. Schedule a Session:
    Once you’ve contacted us, we’ll arrange a convenient time for you and your spouse to meet with one of our qualified counselors. We offer flexible scheduling to accommodate busy lifestyles.
    • Availability Monday-Thursday 9am- 3pm
  3. Confidential and Supportive Environment:
    Rest assured that all sessions are completely confidential. Our goal is to create a safe, respectful, and supportive environment where couples can be open and honest without fear of judgment.
  4. Continuous Support:
    Marriage counseling is a journey, and we are here to provide ongoing support. Whether you need a few sessions or ongoing assistance, we will work with you to ensure your relationship grows stronger with each step.

Why Seek Marriage Counseling?

Marriage is a journey of companionship and mutual support, but it is not always without its challenges. Every relationship faces difficulties, whether it be in communication, trust, family dynamics, or emotional connection. Seeking guidance through marriage counseling can help:

 

  • Improve Communication: Many marital issues arise from misunderstandings or lack of communication. Our counselors help couples communicate effectively, listen actively, and express their needs and concerns in a respectful manner.
  • Resolve Conflict: Disagreements are a natural part of any relationship, but how we resolve them is what matters most. We provide strategies and techniques for resolving conflict in a healthy, constructive way that strengthens the relationship.
  • Strengthen the Emotional Bond: We help couples reconnect emotionally, reigniting the love, respect, and compassion that forms the foundation of a strong and lasting marriage.
  • Build a Strong Foundation: For couples preparing for marriage, we offer pre-marital counseling to lay a strong foundation for a successful, lifelong partnership. This includes discussing important topics such as shared values, expectations, and life goals.
  • Preserve and Restore Marital Harmony: For couples facing difficult times, counseling provides a chance to restore harmony, rebuild trust, and move forward with renewed commitment.

Important Notice:

The Main Office on the 1st Floor of the Islamic Center of America is your primary point of contact. Our staff will be happy to assist you with your request or provide further information. Please visit the office to fill out the necessary form.

Thank you for your cooperation!